Try Try but Never Cry.

In one of my blog my I have said that failures lead to success. And we should be happy with whatever we happy achieved and try to work harder more and more to fulfill our goals.
Chandrayaan 2 was just 2.1 km away from landing on the moon, and it lost contact  from the ISRO.

"Few inches, kilometre, marks, minutes can make a huge difference in our life."

Today I would like to share a story of a girl, how after getting  fail  in exams she tried harder next time and achieve success.
"Neelam , a 18 year old girl has just passed her 12th exams with good marks.
She was very good in studies and her mind was very sharp.
She wanted to go in govt. Sector.
After taking coaching for 1 year she finally appears for the SSC exams for the first time.
This was her first attempt but she gives her 100% . After completing her exam she was pretty sure that she will be able to pass the exam.
But she was happy that at least she tried. Her parents also support her and asked her to do well next time.
After spending 1 year preparing for the exam she finally appears in the exam.
This time she was quite confident that she would be able to clear the test.
When the results arrived, she got shocked that she was just 2 marks away from clearing the exam.
She broke down in tears.
But, she didn't feel weak from inside.
She never loose hope. After this she becomes more determined and hard worker.
She tried hard this time. She also learns , what mistakes she had done in her previous exams.
She was ready to give the exam.
In her third trial, she has passed the exams. She was very happy that she has fulfilled her goal of getting a govt. Job. "

It is said that, "those who  work  hard and put their everything in chasing their goals,never fails."
It is true, don't make your failures your weakness, make them your strength and try more harder until you reaches your destination.

It's not about crossing the winning line, it's about how much you work hard and tried in doing so.
The real winner, is the one who "Never Gives Up".
It's about having courage to fight back next time with full power and hard work, so that destiny comes in your feet.
And no power can stop you doing so, except you.
" Try try but never cry. "
The more you tries , the better you become and the best you give.

This story relates me more with the story of chandrayaan. 1st attempt was failed. In 2 nd one we are more close in achieving the target. But I hope that next time we will definitely be able to achieve the success.
Remember one thing, The more you try , the more  will be the taste of your success. And the success will make you forget how much pain and hard work you put in achieving it up

Don't change yourself....

Changes are important part  of our life. By time we should adapt these changes.
"A change should be good not bad."
Some people change in wrong way because they have money, power, position, attitude etc.
You should change yourself but not to forget who you are. Adapt changes ,but only in good way because they will help you to grow in life.
Never change yourself in the bad way. Bring changes in yourself just to become good human being .
I have a very good story you that will help to learn more about this.

"There was a middle class family who lives in Agra. There were 3 members in that family, Ramesh kumar, his wife sarita and his daughter siya.
Ramesh and sarita are very helpful in nature. They always help other people in their difficult times.
One day Ramesh cousin sister Rekha came to his house and starts crying .
"Rekha lives in a village near Varanasi with his husband and 2 children. Her husband Shyam was a alcohol addict and waste all his money in gambling and alcohol. "
Ramesh asks rekha what happens then rekha tells about the problems which she has been going through in her life.
Than Ramesh said don't cry I have a solution for this . Ramesh brings Rekha's family in his house and said that you will live here until you are setting well.
Ramesh and sarita treats Rekha's family very well with full respect and love . He takes shyam along with him in the factory where he works. He teaches him very well about the work. Than shyam also starts earning well.
After some months Rekha's family move to their new home. Shyam left the job and start his own business. His business ran successfully and now he has lots of money ,his children also got good job and they also start earning.
Now Rekha was on clouds. She has not seen that much money in her  whole life. After this she changes drastically , she has got lots of attitude and treat everyone that they are very small.
On the other hand Ramesh and his family was busy in their own life.
One day what happens is that the factory in which he work gets burn due to electric short circuit. Due to which he get unemployed.
They were very helpless as siya is going to be married in few months.
They have shortage of money.
Ramesh thought how he will manage then his wife Sarita suggests that we should take Rekha's and shyam's help. Now they have money ,hope they will help us.
The next day Ramesh and sarita visits Rekha's home.
 They ask the security guard to open the door. But he refuses. He called Rekha there and tells that two people named Ramesh and Sarita are waiting outside. Then suddenly Rekha replied,They may be some beggars, she don't know them.She ask the guard to tell them to go from here, She don't have any money to give to them.
Ramesh and Sarita shatters down after listening this. Sarita starts crying, and said how can she change ? We were the one who help her in her difficult times, now she refuses to know who we are.
Times passes by, siya's marriage happens peaceful. Ramesh and Sarita never change themselves.
They remains same, after getting betrayed by Rekha, they keep on helping others. Their behavior remains the same.
After reading this story, I would just like to say that not only money changes the people, but when some people gets fame, power, position,
They become different .
Always remember your past. Who  you were before and who helps you in your difficult times. If you will remember these things than you will never gonna change. You will always be same.
It takes seconds to be on heights and seconds to fall from that height.
Always be the same, don't change for anything.  ...  .
Bring change in society not in you.
Adapt the changes which make you a good person not a bad one. ..
"Don't change like seasons, Be like Sun because it always remains same. "

Find beauty in your flaws.....

God has created every individual differently. Everyone is different,  we know that .
Not even a single person in this world is perfect not even the god.  Yes,  everyone has flaws.
The point is that how you accept your flaws and make them as your strength.
 It is said that the beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Here, you should be the beholder. If you feel you are beautiful then only the world will think, you are beautiful.
If you yourself are ashamed of your flaws than nobody will gonna love you. First you have to accept these flaws and love yourself than the world will accept you and will not use these flaws against you.
Do you really think spending millions of money for your outer appearance is enough. What you think Getting beautiful from outside is more important rather than feeling beautiful from inside?
If you have the beautiful soul and heart than, it will definitely reflects on your face which will make the world forget about your flaws which you have.
For this first you have to start feeling that you are beautiful. Be confident in your skin. Don't think about your flaws, everyone have them but the point is some people accept their flaws and move forward with full belief and confidence and some just destroy their life because of self-esteem.
Don't make these flaws obstruction of your path .Use them as your strength and achieve success. Because once your are successful nobody will see your flaws . Your success will make these flaws as beautiful as your are.
If you want this to happen,you just have to feel beautiful from inside.
Because the outer beauty will shut down after time but the beauty which you have from inside will always gonna remains with you.
This will not gonna change.
In whatever condition you are whether black or white, fat or slim,
With any disability or marks , cuts , burns etc. Make yourself as strong that nobody can make fun of your appearance.
If we want world to accept you and love you, be happy in whatever condition you are. Don't try to compare your self with anyone. Just remember you are one of your kind and that's your quality .
If you'll feel beautiful than the world will appears more beautiful to you.
Your facial beauty will change by time, your body will change, people in your life will change but the one thing that will not gonna change is beautiful soul . It will always remains same . Your beautiful soul is eternal which will never gonna die.
So don't work on your outer appearance it will fade out by the time.
Be like the moon, even though it has lots of spots on it. But every night it came and shines bright and spread its brightness in this world. In the black night it shines and spread brightness. Just like it use your flaws as your strength and feel beautiful , then you are ready to shine in this dark world....   ..

Pressure cooker

During exam times I don't know why most of the students acts as pressure cooker.  They are in so much pressure, that's why I put "pressure cooker" as the title of my post.
Everyone is in pressure of getting good marks. Do you really think, taking pressure for how much marks you'll get in the exams is  good?
Absolutely not, marks are our future, whatever we will write we will get marks according to that only. Taking pressure or thinking so much, will not be going to help you out.
Your health is more important,so don't take pressure.
There is so much pressure in student's life like completing assignments, files, studying for the exam and most important getting marks and some other kind of pressure.
Pressure goes on increasing and stress and tension also starts increasing.
You should not take tension and try to release some pressure.
If you are cooking something in a pressure cooker without putting it's whistle, what happens is that pressure keeping on increasing and there is no release of pressure, after sometime the cooker will blast. Yes it will blast ,  In the same way If the  mind of the students cannot handle pressure they starts taking wrong step.
Also remember one thing don't study for getting good marks,  always study only for gaining knowledge. Because at the end no one remember your marks, they only know how much knowledge you have.
Try to understand , what is being taught to you.
Marks are just a number, one's you are successful, no one will ask you about your percentage.
Taking pressure for just numbers is not according to me is fine. Be relaxed and try to focus on your studies rather than  thinking  about marks. Because studying with fresh mind will help you in learning more.
Marks are just the outcome of how much effort and hardwork you put.
If you have given your 100℅ then just be satisfied. Your knowledge will not gonna be waste, it is more precious than jewels. . At some point in your life the knowledge you gained will help you in achieving your targets.
Now you all know that, marks are not as important as getting knowledge. Will you take pressure anymore.
I hope, after reading my article you can release your exam pressure because Quality education is more important than Quantity education. .. .. Don't run after marks they will ultimately come to you , if you have the right information about any questions no one will gonna take your marks .
So at last I would like to say that  release all your pressure from  your mind and start working hard.
Only study will help you out not the excessive pressure which you take.
Keep yourself calm, focused and study hard... .

Sabse bada rupaiya

There is a saying,"Baap bada na bhaiya, the whole thing is that ki bhaiya  sabse bada rupaiya"..
I definitely think in this time,these lines are true.
In this greedy and money minded world, everyone is running behind money. Is money the only happiness left for those people ?
Remember one think you can buy anything in this world with money but one thing that cannot be bought is the happiness.
Happiness is earned  only by  those people who are satisfied with what they have. ..
Yes, it's true. Let me give you one example .
There were two families, one very rich and other one was very poor.
The richer family has everything big house, cars, television, fridge, a. c.  etc.
On the other side poor family lives in a small hut with no basic facilities.
The earning member of rich family was a business man and earns lot of money. But, he was not happy. Every single day he just want to earn  more money than he has. . He never gave time to his family. His kids were totally spoiled because there was no restriction on them. They get lots of money as their pocket money.... And they just waste that money as water ..  Because they don't know the value of money.. They just think that it's easy to earn money.. .
The life of this family is totally based on money.
One day what happens that, the earning member got heart attack, because his business went in loss... And his whole money got drown.
But, the family members didn't get affected of his death .They thought they lots of money, so be happy .
Few days later, a court notice comes to thier house which tells that their father had taken lots of loans from the bank. Now he is dead. The bank will gonna cease all his property.  After reading this everyone gets shock because they don't have any savings with them  They have spend all they money which they have. ... Now there condition becomes worsen.

Let's come back to the poor family, they were simple people with less expectations. .they live thier life with full simplicity. The earning member works on daily wages sometimes he get 80rupees or sometimes 100rupees per day. Every single day he returns his home with full happiness on his face . What they do is, they take small part of their money and save them for future. They were satisfied in what they have. They never complaint of anything. They were happy with what they have. They try to spend time with family and solve each other's problems. One day what happens that the earning member got ill and was admitted in hospital. All the family members got very tensed . They use all thier money from thier savings for the treatment and save his life.
At last, they were happy and together.

After this,  you really think " Sabse bada rupaiya".
Absolutely not.
Staying together, satisfied with what we have and always be happy in whatever conditions we are is the most important things. .. .
Don't judge everything with money . It may be important for living .But It should not be your first preference.
Don't run after money. ..
Believe me money can't give you the  happiness which you want .
It will only give you tension.
So always be happy with what you have . Never complained to your parents that you want this or that. Always remember it took lots of hardwork to earn money . So try to save money and use that money for helping those who really need them . Don't waste money . ... Money is not everything . The happiness which you get from  satisfaction, helping others and staying together is more important. ..   
At last I would like to say that sabse bada should be the satisfaction  not  the rupaiya.....

Failure leads to success..

The one word which I like the most is "failure" because every time when I fails, I  got more power to achieve success with full passion and dedication.
Everyone have experienced failure, once in their lifetime.

Failures teaches you the most important lesson of your life. The more you fail , the more will be the  hunger of achieving success . The taste of success , after getting lots of failures will be as sweet as the mangoes that you have been eating in this summer. Forget about mangoes.
Let me come on the point.
You learn more from your failures rather than your success.
Failure makes you as strong as a concrete wall.
Success and failure are  two side of a coin. The path of success is full of failures .  It's in your hand how you treat your  failures and how much you learn from them.
Failure comes just to tell you that try your 100% next time.
Just because you take longer time to achieve your goals doesn't mean you are a failure.  Every successful person knows the value of failure .
Make failure your teacher, which will make your learn new things everytime.
Don't start crying when you fails, everyone fails. Just try to take that failure as a compliment. Be happy and thank God that life has given you another chance to gain more knowledge . Getting knowledge is more precious than getting salary, for a job which you never want to work as .
Failure work as the bricks, which  help in building the ladder of success.
Try, try but never cry.
Try to take failures on a positive note. Because these failures, at one day will definitely gives you what you want.
At last I want to end my words by saying that failure is the part of your life just accept that. .  The early you accept them the early success will comes to you.. ...

Work hard Dream big

What do you think a dream is  ?

Everyone have there own definition of dream..
But, let's not talk about that.
Dream are not what we see in nights but dreams are those which gives us sleepless night.
Everyone have their one dream which they want to fulfill. But, it's not that easy as it sounds. Sometimes life brings you at that point where you have to forget your dreams and do something else just for the sake of financial problems, family and many other problems. Not everything you want comes to you easily,  you have to work hard to achieve your dreams.
Keeping aside your dreams for some time due to any problem is ok , but when you start forgetting them then it's not ok.

Try to chase your dreams . Because if they don't get  fulfill ,then you at some point in your life you will regret that you can't do things which you want. So don't regret.  .
Never let your dreams go way from your life. Keep them alive and try to fulfill them with full dedication and strength.
If you try chase you dreams, success will definitely chase you. Make all your dreams come true. Because magic do happen, you just have to wait for the time.

Life is very short, you don't know how much time you have, just enjoy your life and try to live your dream before you die. . ...
"If you power to dream it , then you also have the power to achieve it....  "

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Beta bachao beta padhao part 2...

According to me our past, present and future is because of the women that plays an important part in our lifes. . 
Why man thinks they are superior and treat us badly.
Girls are always being taught to study and get good marks if they fail do so they are being taunted all the time.. .. If we don't get job then it's our problem..  If if we earn and not do household work and there is problem.. I can't understand what society wants from us.  Why they treat us as object and keep on modifying us according to their needs.
Every girl or women at some point feel that why God you make me girl . I want independence and freedom like man's have.
In this world where women are making us proud in every field, then it's our responsibility to treat them as superior as we can.. 
I as a girl feel very supressed and powerless sometimes.  I want this time to change as soon as possible where we can live our life with no restriction and without anyone's support we can achieve whatever we want.
Time has come people have to change their mentality and change this slogan "beti bachao beti padhao"... We don't need such slogans what we want is respect  freedom and wisdom.  ... 

Beta Bachao Beta padhao

You all might me thinking Is she mad or what writing wrong slogan..
Some people may be right in their thoughts.. .But I think the time has come where we need to replace "Beti" From "Beta" In this slogan. .
Why everytime this society proves  that girls are weak they need to be protected .. Why can't they make such environment where we don't need anyone's help and without fear with full wisdom and freedom we can go wherever we want.
Time has changed so we are.. 
Women know their powers. Education plays an important role in their lifes.
But what after education, education is given to them but they are not treated the same way the uneducated man or boy is treated..
This is the different from starting onwards how intelligent the girl may be she is forced to learn and do household work.  Why is this education is not enough for her ..
The boy may not get marks, have bad company, indulge in bad activities is treated as king of the house. If you say there is equality then why household work is not being teached to them, don't they live in the house  . .
If we girls can study, do job, carries many responsibility why can't they.. ...
Before you think this article is over its not. 2nd part will be published soon.

Your tears are precious...

In everyone's life one time come where we can't control our emotions and we break down in tears. 

Sometimes it's ok to cry and show your emotions. 

But when you start crying on even a small things then it's not good. Your tears are precious you can't make  them fall from your beautiful eyes for those people who are not important in your life. No one has the right to make you cry. . 

If something bad is being told to you or you are being scolded by your teachers, parents, boss or anyone.. Take it as a compliment and try to do better and not to repeat the mistakes. 

Don't take bad things seriously or start crying... 

Take time think about the situation, and get motivated. . Don't waste time in crying... Start working hard and focus on your goals. Don't give others the chance to make you cry..  

Stay confident and try to handle the situation with ease. 

Make your's tears your strength not your weakness .  As I said earlier they are as precious as you are.. So on that note stay happy and spread happiness.. ... .

A Roller coaster ride

So. A very interesting day with ups and down. After attaining 1st position in word cup points table india wont be able to qualify for the finale. A tough fight and a excited ride . Every bit of ride takes u to thrill, suspense and lots of emotions... 

The starting was a big shock get getting early wickets. My eyes get num and the hopes start getting losing... But then high point of the match came which gives us nerve breaking thoughts and yess we are still alive.   But then it's happen to be not our day and we lose by some runs .. Heart breaks and we were in tears. .. .. 

It's ok 

A new day...

Everyday comes with new hopes and opportunities. You just have to wait and grab that opportunity. 

Success and failure are two sides of the coin and we can't do anything just to accept whatever comes in our favour. 

So do hard work and give 100% in whatever field you are.  Because one day success will be on your feet. 

If the previous day was very bad then just do this things try to forget that and start from the beginning.start with full dedication and energy because the harder you work for something the greater you will be going to achieve. A new day, a new chance and a new start. Take it or lose it it's in your hand.