Don't change yourself....

Changes are important part  of our life. By time we should adapt these changes.
"A change should be good not bad."
Some people change in wrong way because they have money, power, position, attitude etc.
You should change yourself but not to forget who you are. Adapt changes ,but only in good way because they will help you to grow in life.
Never change yourself in the bad way. Bring changes in yourself just to become good human being .
I have a very good story you that will help to learn more about this.

"There was a middle class family who lives in Agra. There were 3 members in that family, Ramesh kumar, his wife sarita and his daughter siya.
Ramesh and sarita are very helpful in nature. They always help other people in their difficult times.
One day Ramesh cousin sister Rekha came to his house and starts crying .
"Rekha lives in a village near Varanasi with his husband and 2 children. Her husband Shyam was a alcohol addict and waste all his money in gambling and alcohol. "
Ramesh asks rekha what happens then rekha tells about the problems which she has been going through in her life.
Than Ramesh said don't cry I have a solution for this . Ramesh brings Rekha's family in his house and said that you will live here until you are setting well.
Ramesh and sarita treats Rekha's family very well with full respect and love . He takes shyam along with him in the factory where he works. He teaches him very well about the work. Than shyam also starts earning well.
After some months Rekha's family move to their new home. Shyam left the job and start his own business. His business ran successfully and now he has lots of money ,his children also got good job and they also start earning.
Now Rekha was on clouds. She has not seen that much money in her  whole life. After this she changes drastically , she has got lots of attitude and treat everyone that they are very small.
On the other hand Ramesh and his family was busy in their own life.
One day what happens is that the factory in which he work gets burn due to electric short circuit. Due to which he get unemployed.
They were very helpless as siya is going to be married in few months.
They have shortage of money.
Ramesh thought how he will manage then his wife Sarita suggests that we should take Rekha's and shyam's help. Now they have money ,hope they will help us.
The next day Ramesh and sarita visits Rekha's home.
 They ask the security guard to open the door. But he refuses. He called Rekha there and tells that two people named Ramesh and Sarita are waiting outside. Then suddenly Rekha replied,They may be some beggars, she don't know them.She ask the guard to tell them to go from here, She don't have any money to give to them.
Ramesh and Sarita shatters down after listening this. Sarita starts crying, and said how can she change ? We were the one who help her in her difficult times, now she refuses to know who we are.
Times passes by, siya's marriage happens peaceful. Ramesh and Sarita never change themselves.
They remains same, after getting betrayed by Rekha, they keep on helping others. Their behavior remains the same.
After reading this story, I would just like to say that not only money changes the people, but when some people gets fame, power, position,
They become different .
Always remember your past. Who  you were before and who helps you in your difficult times. If you will remember these things than you will never gonna change. You will always be same.
It takes seconds to be on heights and seconds to fall from that height.
Always be the same, don't change for anything.  ...  .
Bring change in society not in you.
Adapt the changes which make you a good person not a bad one. ..
"Don't change like seasons, Be like Sun because it always remains same. "