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Try Try but Never Cry.

In one of my blog my I have said that failures lead to success. And we should be happy with whatever we happy achieved and try to work harder more and more to fulfill our goals. Chandrayaan 2 was just 2.1 km away from landing on the moon, and it lost contact  from the ISRO. "Few inches, kilometre, marks, minutes can make a huge difference in our life." Today I would like to share a story of a girl, how after getting  fail  in exams she tried harder next time and achieve success. "Neelam , a 18 year old girl has just passed her 12th exams with good marks. She was very good in studies and her mind was very sharp. She wanted to go in govt. Sector. After taking coaching for 1 year she finally appears for the SSC exams for the first time. This was her first attempt but she gives her 100% . After completing her exam she was pretty sure that she will be able to pass the exam. But she was happy that at least she tried. Her parents also support her and asked her to d

Don't change yourself....

Changes are important part  of our life. By time we should adapt these changes. "A change should be good not bad." Some people change in wrong way because they have money, power, position, attitude etc. You should change yourself but not to forget who you are. Adapt changes ,but only in good way because they will help you to grow in life. Never change yourself in the bad way. Bring changes in yourself just to become good human being . I have a very good story you that will help to learn more about this. "There was a middle class family who lives in Agra. There were 3 members in that family, Ramesh kumar, his wife sarita and his daughter siya. Ramesh and sarita are very helpful in nature. They always help other people in their difficult times. One day Ramesh cousin sister Rekha came to his house and starts crying . "Rekha lives in a village near Varanasi with his husband and 2 children. Her husband Shyam was a alcohol addict and waste all his money in gamb

Find beauty in your flaws.....

God has created every individual differently. Everyone is different,  we know that . Not even a single person in this world is perfect not even the god.  Yes,  everyone has flaws. The point is that how you accept your flaws and make them as your strength.  It is said that the beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Here, you should be the beholder. If you feel you are beautiful then only the world will think, you are beautiful. If you yourself are ashamed of your flaws than nobody will gonna love you. First you have to accept these flaws and love yourself than the world will accept you and will not use these flaws against you. Do you really think spending millions of money for your outer appearance is enough. What you think Getting beautiful from outside is more important rather than feeling beautiful from inside? If you have the beautiful soul and heart than, it will definitely reflects on your face which will make the world forget about your flaws which you have. For this fi

Pressure cooker

During exam times I don't know why most of the students acts as pressure cooker.  They are in so much pressure, that's why I put "pressure cooker" as the title of my post. Everyone is in pressure of getting good marks. Do you really think, taking pressure for how much marks you'll get in the exams is  good? Absolutely not, marks are our future, whatever we will write we will get marks according to that only. Taking pressure or thinking so much, will not be going to help you out. Your health is more important,so don't take pressure. There is so much pressure in student's life like completing assignments, files, studying for the exam and most important getting marks and some other kind of pressure. Pressure goes on increasing and stress and tension also starts increasing. You should not take tension and try to release some pressure. If you are cooking something in a pressure cooker without putting it's whistle, what happens is that pressure keepi

Sabse bada rupaiya

There is a saying,"Baap bada na bhaiya, the whole thing is that ki bhaiya  sabse bada rupaiya".. I definitely think in this time,these lines are true. In this greedy and money minded world, everyone is running behind money. Is money the only happiness left for those people ? Remember one think you can buy anything in this world with money but one thing that cannot be bought is the happiness. Happiness is earned  only by  those people who are satisfied with what they have. .. Yes, it's true. Let me give you one example . There were two families, one very rich and other one was very poor. The richer family has everything big house, cars, television, fridge, a. c.  etc. On the other side poor family lives in a small hut with no basic facilities. The earning member of rich family was a business man and earns lot of money. But, he was not happy. Every single day he just want to earn  more money than he has. . He never gave time to his family. His kids were totally sp

Failure leads to success..

The one word which I like the most is "failure" because every time when I fails, I  got more power to achieve success with full passion and dedication. Everyone have experienced failure, once in their lifetime. Failures teaches you the most important lesson of your life. The more you fail , the more will be the  hunger of achieving success . The taste of success , after getting lots of failures will be as sweet as the mangoes that you have been eating in this summer. Forget about mangoes. Let me come on the point. You learn more from your failures rather than your success. Failure makes you as strong as a concrete wall. Success and failure are  two side of a coin. The path of success is full of failures .  It's in your hand how you treat your  failures and how much you learn from them. Failure comes just to tell you that try your 100% next time. Just because you take longer time to achieve your goals doesn't mean you are a failure.  Every successful person k

Work hard Dream big

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What do you think a dream is  ? Everyone have there own definition of dream.. But, let's not talk about that. Dream are not what we see in nights but dreams are those which gives us sleepless night. Everyone have their one dream which they want to fulfill. But, it's not that easy as it sounds. Sometimes life brings you at that point where you have to forget your dreams and do something else just for the sake of financial problems, family and many other problems. Not everything you want comes to you easily,  you have to work hard to achieve your dreams. Keeping aside your dreams for some time due to any problem is ok , but when you start forgetting them then it's not ok. Try to chase your dreams . Because if they don't get  fulfill ,then you at some point in your life you will regret that you can't do things which you want. So don't regret.  . Never let your dreams go way from your life. Keep them alive and try to fulfill them with full dedication a

Beta bachao beta padhao part 2...

According to me our past, present and future is because of the women that plays an important part in our lifes. .  Why man thinks they are superior and treat us badly. Girls are always being taught to study and get good marks if they fail do so they are being taunted all the time.. .. If we don't get job then it's our problem..  If if we earn and not do household work and there is problem.. I can't understand what society wants from us.  Why they treat us as object and keep on modifying us according to their needs. Every girl or women at some point feel that why God you make me girl . I want independence and freedom like man's have. In this world where women are making us proud in every field, then it's our responsibility to treat them as superior as we can..  I as a girl feel very supressed and powerless sometimes.  I want this time to change as soon as possible where we can live our life with no restriction and without anyone's support we can achieve wha

Beta Bachao Beta padhao

You all might me thinking Is she mad or what writing wrong slogan.. Some people may be right in their thoughts.. .But I think the time has come where we need to replace "Beti" From "Beta" In this slogan. . Why everytime this society proves  that girls are weak they need to be protected .. Why can't they make such environment where we don't need anyone's help and without fear with full wisdom and freedom we can go wherever we want. Time has changed so we are..  Women know their powers. Education plays an important role in their lifes. But what after education, education is given to them but they are not treated the same way the uneducated man or boy is treated.. This is the different from starting onwards how intelligent the girl may be she is forced to learn and do household work.  Why is this education is not enough for her .. The boy may not get marks, have bad company, indulge in bad activities is treated as king of the house. If you say there

Your tears are precious...

In everyone's life one time come where we can't control our emotions and we break down in tears.  Sometimes it's ok to cry and show your emotions.  But when you start crying on even a small things then it's not good. Your tears are precious you can't make  them fall from your beautiful eyes for those people who are not important in your life. No one has the right to make you cry. .  If something bad is being told to you or you are being scolded by your teachers, parents, boss or anyone.. Take it as a compliment and try to do better and not to repeat the mistakes.  Don't take bad things seriously or start crying...  Take time think about the situation, and get motivated. . Don't waste time in crying... Start working hard and focus on your goals. Don't give others the chance to make you cry..   Stay confident and try to handle the situation with ease.  Make your's tears your strength not your weakness .  As I said earlier they are as prec

A Roller coaster ride

So. A very interesting day with ups and down. After attaining 1st position in word cup points table india wont be able to qualify for the finale. A tough fight and a excited ride . Every bit of ride takes u to thrill, suspense and lots of emotions...  The starting was a big shock get getting early wickets. My eyes get num and the hopes start getting losing... But then high point of the match came which gives us nerve breaking thoughts and yess we are still alive.   But then it's happen to be not our day and we lose by some runs .. Heart breaks and we were in tears. .. ..  It's ok 

A new day...

Everyday comes with new hopes and opportunities. You just have to wait and grab that opportunity.  Success and failure are two sides of the coin and we can't do anything just to accept whatever comes in our favour.  So do hard work and give 100% in whatever field you are.  Because one day success will be on your feet.  If the previous day was very bad then just do this things try to forget that and start from the beginning.start with full dedication and energy because the harder you work for something the greater you will be going to achieve. A new day, a new chance and a new start. Take it or lose it it's in your hand.